I said that because Azarchius and many of the admins have said it too. It's nothing about ego, or being a victim. I think you are sadly misinformed and the entire point of this post was to bring others view into it. A healthy discussion. If you'd look back at the other comments they have all been thoughtful and respectful, yours is the only one not being so. I respect your thoughts as I do to anyone. I will mention myself, in anyway I like, my own experiences effect my views I was simply explaining them and if people 'jab' at me for doing that, then so be it. Lord knows it won't be the first time it's happened.