It isn't misuse if you are going into somebody else's phase. You are a guest there and you have to accept that in their phases, they have the ability to teleport to you or teleport you to them. Most private communities have this feature. This is normal to have. Just don't do anything that will bring the ire of a phase host and their staff onto yourself and they may have no reason to use it other then if you're near a situation. And they have to get to it fast, it's quicker to app to somebody there and you may just be chosen through random chance to be app'd too. That's just how it is.
You simply prevent it by not giving the phase staff a reason to appear to you.
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